Premature Ejaculation
The definition for premature ejaculation is vague at best. It could mean either ejaculating before intercourse, or just as you begin intercourse, maybe a couple of minutes in. Some even define intercourse as finishing before your partner! How many times have you wished you could have more staying power? You aren't alone. In fact, the National Health and Social Life Survey (NHSLS) reports that 30% of men ejaculate prematurely.
Premature ejaculation is not a disease, but simply a sexual condition. While premature ejaculation in no way physically harms the sufferer, it does affect his relationship with his partner, who he likely leaves sexually unsatisfied. This in turn will affect his self-esteem, which leaks into other aspects of his life. But lucky for you, there is a cure. You can't just be expected to control this function though, without a little bit of help. You've probably tried thinking of something else other than sex, which may work but all it does is decrease the intensity of your orgasm. Or, that you need to turn to prescription medication which is both pricey and rife with side effects. Both are completely unnecessary. Instead, we'll teach you a few easy tricks so you can enjoy sex for longer.
Learning how to start and stop is your most effective tool in preventing early orgasm. That is, while having sex recognize the moment before you orgasm, and hold off. It should first be practiced during masturbation, and then incorporated with a partner. Learn to find that moment right as you build towards orgasm, which is signalled by a tingling feeling. Stop any stimulation once you feel this tingling. After the sensation subsides, resume stimulation. See how many times you can do this, then let yourself orgasm. It may sound easy, but you'll see it's far more difficult than it sounds. You may find that you will occasionally lose the strength of your erection - this happens occasionally. Just continue as you were before. Once you are ready for partner sex with this routine, try caressing and kissing during these little breaks.
Kegel exercises are another great way of holding off orgasm. Kegel exercises strengthen the pubococcygeus muscles, otherwise known as the PC muscles. To find these muscles, stop your urination midstream - that would be the PC muscles. Now, to do a Kegel exercise, clench the muscle, hold it for five seconds, then release. Repeat these in sets of ten until you are tired. Slowly, over time, increase the number of reps, and should ideally be repeated three times a day. You won't see any results quickly, at least not for three to four weeks. How this works is during sex, once you feel yourself building towards orgasm in the same way you learned with the start and stop technique, clench this muscle. This can be done in conjunction with the start and stop.
An herbal supplement is also a great help, as long as it comes from a reputable company. Extenze promises a longer, firmer, thicker erection. Who doesn't want that? More importantly, it increases your staying power while still increasing the power of your orgasm. This probably sounds too good to be true. But it does work, through a carefully selected blend of natural sexual enhancers. Expect results with no side effects.
ExtenZe, Sex and Teasing
Teasing is a seriously under-rated part of sex.
Admit it, you've dreamed and fantasized about exactly what you'd love to do, and what you'd love her to do, with your ideal sex partner at some point in your life.
Hey, it's your fantasy. The great thing about fantasy is, you're never disappointed.
I'm also willing to bet that part of that fantasy involves some kind of teasing.
For real, who WOULDN'T be aroused by a curvy brunette in sexy, revealing clothes (or not even!) doing things to you in such precise detail that Hugh Hefner himself would blush?
Relax mate. You're not evil for having those thoughts. You're human. That's a good thing.
How'd you like to do the same to the lady in your life?
The makers of ExtenZe, one of the most effective natural male libido enhancers available today, think that teasing is a fun way to lead into healthy and enjoyable sex. And in this article you'll find some sexy ways to tease your female partner. Play your cards right and it's more than likely that she'll return the favor.
Talk to her. When you get her alone, whisper to her that you've been thinking all day about what you want to to do her, and where you'll do it.
Tell her how you're going to use your tongue around her neck, back and inner thigh. Then lick her gently, teasing her with your tongue.
Then kiss her mouth. But if she tries to kiss you back aggressively, pull away. Hold her face, and kiss her at a slower, teasing tempo.
While you're holding her face, move it in one direction, then bite and suck on her neck. Then go back to her mouth, lick her lips and suck on each one.
You're driving her nuts like this.
Turn it up a little. Massage her temples with your index and middle fingers on both sides. Move to the roots of her hair and use your fingertips to massage her head.
Then, with medium force, pull her hair and bring her cheek to yours. Ask her if she likes what you're doing. Affirmative? Crank it up a little.
Rub her shoulders. Then gently place your fist in her back. Open your hands and slowly lead them to the front of her body. Bring your hands down underneath her breasts and firmly hold onto her ribs. Then, move them up and circle her breasts. But don't touch them.
Go down to her thighs and open her legs so her vagina is exposed. Massage on thigh at a time. Then, slowly make your way up her body with your hands, until you're at her lips, but don't touch. Not even if she asks.
Instead, go down to her navel. Lick your way up to her chest.
Then remove your body from hers completely. Go up to her face and passionately kiss her.
She's going insane with your unpredictability!
Ease up on the intense kissing and kiss her slowly. If she attacks you, hold her face and kiss her so you're keeping her desire just slightly at bay.
At this point she's probably going insane and begging you to go inside her. Don't give in entirely. Just tease her here, with...
Let's not get too graphic here. We'll conclude this lesson in Teasing 101 to your imagination.
But if you want to boost your sex life and your ability to tease and tantalize your lady into intense, animalistic sex, try it with ExtenZe.
Formulated with a proprietary and VERY effective blend of natural herbs and amino acids that boost sex drive, give bigger and harder erections and increase overall sexual health, ExtenZe is a healthy and very rewarding journey to sexual ecstasy. For you and for her.
What's in it? Top secret, although the ingredients are all natural, very safe and doctor-approved. We gotta tease you a little too, you know.
But be assured that, with ExtenZe and a little teasing, you're in for some lovin' tonight, friend.
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